They said you were boring,
They said you were not serious,
They said they loved your company,
They said you were funny, ironic- I thought you were boring
They said they love your work ethic. How??? Were you not serious the last time I checked
Maybe we thrive better in some environments compared to others,
Maybe we show different sides of our personalities depending on the people around us,
Maybe… just maybe
So where am I going with this?
If you live your life to impress others, just so they have a favorable opinion of you, that right there is what is called a purposeless life.
If you depend on what people say to validate yourself and boost your self worth, then you need to work on finding yourself first before you let people have an opinion.
I am not saying that we should not bother to heed to what people have to say, no, some opinions are given to us for our best interests.
My point is, anyone and everyone can have an opinion but it doesn’t make it a fact. You need to decide whose is worth acting on and whose has no impact whatsoever.
Know yourself, know your worth, don’t feel obliged to prove yourself to beat some random opinions.